I thought I had come a long way with dealing with the PA and my emotions. Yesterday I saw OW had joined FB...she had not had a page during the affair..and that she is engaged. It made me furious. I want to send her a message....I see you are engaged. Congratulations. When some little tramp decides she wants your husband and he has an affair, I hope you will remember me honey. And feel all the pain I did. Karma is a b!tch.
ARGH. I really thought I had let go of it but guess not. I am not going to send the message...just venting.
Don't even bother.. It's not worth it.
Remember, KARMAis the BIGGEST b!tch of them all, so let her do her job.
My H's OW is now engaged also AND pregnant with her new fiance's baby.
So I know how that feels. If anything, let that fact alone help you get through it. All I do to snap me out of my bitterness is think about how happy that b!tch is with her "perfect" little life and say to myself "why should I be thinking of her and be sad when she isn't losing sleep over what she did to me and my family!"
I wish you a good day!
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson