Newmama! If I remember right, you took a break and are now back! (And I'm checking your current thread and that seems to be the case.) You seem like a wise one, so I'm glad you're back.

All right, Piano, positive thoughts:

+ There almost always is an OW in these sitches, so we can generally assume that all of WHs are pursuing one. So we can also assume that most success stories had one, too!
+ These OWs have to be low-quality ladies (ha!) because, really, who would date a guy who was married with a baby on the way?
+ There WILL be a day when he will look at OW and wonder if she was worth it. It's likely that the relationship will end.

+ I keep thinking about what you said on my post the other day about a "favourite person" not being by your side. But here's the flip side of that: for YEARS you had a best bud and a great marriage. He can't take those years away from you because they're done.
+ You'll have a favorite person again, hopefully WH, but if not, you will find happiness.

I estimate you're around 35 weeks, huh? You are probably a lot bigger than BD and me! I'm 31 weeks and just starting to feel tired. . . the baby is almost here, yay!

ps-- I hope your new haircut is kicka**!


me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.