I only have a second, but I wanted to add that H is almost making me feel guility for taking DD to Disney - saying that he really doesn't want to miss her seeing it for the 1st time. Even mentioned that he could go if we wait until July.

Now really - isn't that unfair? He's the reason we aren't taking a family vacation. And how about all of the many times he totally neglected spending time with DD when he was out with OW?


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010