She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[Surviving03]

yup... you are right, it is where she belongs... you know it, your girls know it... but W doesnt know it... not yet anyways.

Tbart... keep your head up... know that your wife does not make or break you... know that she does not have the power to make you sad and miserable... I know that you realizing this fully will come at your own pace, but the sooner you can start believing these things the better... TRUST ME. Let me tell you something.. as everyone has addressed here already, a woman needs a strong, powerful man... there is no dignity in begging for someone who doesnt want to be with you... there IS dignity in wanting to save your marriage, but PLEASE dont let your emotions take over your DB skills and show in front of wife...or even in front of the girls for that matter... they can report things back to wife. Now, there is a fine line between looking like you just dont care, and looking like you are strong enough to handle this and you are going to be fine. Find that balance... and own it. It really is the best thing you can do to GAL and focus on you and your daughters and let wife worry about the divorce... it will save your sanity... and it just might be what it takes to bring W back to you...

I know you know all these things... but I know it takes reminding sometimes when you are feeling real low... dont give up hope