Divorced, Dating, and Parenting

[~Sol]

Right here Wii - just took a break for a bit, been painting lately. I'll try to maintain my beer gut as long as I can, but spring is here and the ladies are wearing less and less clothing - Which means they need something good to look at!

Hey CTH - it sucks right now, custody battles are never fun, but just stick to what you think is fair. I think that you shouldn't budge an inch over physical custody - just because your W "wants" sole custody is not a good reason. One parent has to be seen as "unfit" for that to happen, and if it's beneficial to the kids to keep it joint physical then that's the best way. It's very difficult, if not near impossible, to change a custody agreement in court later, so keep to what you think is fair and always ask this: Will it benefit the children? I don't think your W is thinking this way, but selfishly, which is sad. I have a very selfish XW too, oh, and the divorce is 100% "my fault"!! - Or so she says.
(Rolling eyes)...

Hey guys, having a current pic of the person you are about to meet )via online) is vital! It's scary otherwise!! Yeah, I kinda wish my last encounter had "better" pics of her showing all them wrinkles! Speaking of pics, I tend to look younger in mine, even in person, and I'm 40. People say I look 30-something - which is awesome I think. Hmm, I must be good at hiding my stress!! Haha. I still have the urge to date, man I tell you! It's just hard at the moment with my daughter wanting to spend time - but I love it. She's 11, soon she'll be 18! So gotta enjoy her while she's still "little", but I can see her growing up right in front of my eyes! Have any of you fellas ever had a girl like you but you were just not attracted to them - in fact, you were un-attracted to them? You know the kind, she's just not, um, your "type", but she is obviously pursuing you. (shivers). Then there are the ones that make your jaw drop, but they don't seem interested? I tell you what - I will float on air if I end up meeting someone that I am super-attracted to and makes my jaw drop!