Hello, I agree the person that my husband became was just far away from the kind lvong eprson he was before - it was as if someone had switched him in the night. The anger and hatered and spitefulness towards me was so very hard to deal with - but my story isn't the only one as I have subsequently found BUT I felt incredibly alone last year, isolated and floundering - these are exactly how everyone on this thread (probably on this whole forum??!!) must have felt - however small the comfort it has helped to know I wasn't alone and I wasn't going crazy!
The senseible thing to do is to elt them go - I know that and each of seems to be aiming for that - complete with bumps along the way - we should learn to forgive ourselves too in my view!
lalxx
Choose Life Me: 45 Him: 44 S:11 D:8 Met in 1992 Married in 1995 Bomb drop September 30th 2009 Divorce final April 16th 2011 exH Marries OW June 17th 2011
