My wife gets under my skin just being around. I found in our computer's history that she is looking for places close to the OM.
I feel for you so much. It is good that you are taking a trip to have sometime to yourself. I wish I could do that to, but financial reasons make that impossible, and my kids are 4 and 8, and I don't want to leave with the possibility of her taking them to see the OM. I have to protect the kids from the affair.
It is good that you have no intention of having an affair. I am of the mindset that I will not have a R unless the divorce papers are signed, and I know for the sure it is truly over. You can never change having an affair once it happens. I would feel that I am no better than my W. I have not read your whole sitch, but keep taking care of yourself.
I wish I could take advice better than I am trying to give it.
Keep positive!!!
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
