I understand about trust because I have the same issues with my W at the moment. I am not sure I could trust her again if that is even an option. I hate how she laughs on the phone with my MIL and does not show any remorse for the hell our family endures every moment of everyday. Where is their conscience.
I guess we all have to decide if we could have the trust back, but it seems it take an effort to end the affair before that can even be considered.
Keep fighting and do what you know is right for you!!!
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097