I have not had time to read your whole thread, but does she understand the addiction to Porn that you seem to have. Correct me if I am wrong. Is there a way to explain it to her and find ways for her to deal with it better. Is there like an al-non for spouses of porn or counseling she could do to cope with changes you will be making over time to yourself.
I hope you and her are able to manage some type of agreement on this issue to save your marriage.
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