Oh newmama. It sounds like you're communicating really clearly. It's good that you have a plan. I hope that he understands what the plan is, because his world is going to look different when he doesn't have the benefit of access to you and your S in the home setting.
big hugs to you.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.