There is the fantasy of OM that I am dealing with. It did not get physical but she wanted that. He is married with 2 small kids. I think the real problem is her mother and her husband. Her mom is a child play therapist and her husband is an old school marriage C. This is also the guy that W saw while she was in highschool for her own child of divorce problems(her dad left her mom when wife was 7). Wifes Mom was a patient of this guy before he married her too. All in all they have no clue what a boundary is so MIL tells Wife, " if you like talking to OM then keep doing that. If it works out then it was meant to be." That is the kind of thing they talk about.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
