WAH in MLC with PA

[flowmom]

Hang in there DG. I find that my emotions really tank around that time of the month . I like your ideas for self-care, just try to keep the focus positive. hugs to you.

[DiamondGirl]

So I texted something really mean to H after finding out that OW spent the weekend with my kids...

Karma is going to come bite me in the a$$ but I'm so tired of the rolercoaster and Hs antics I don't care right now....

I'm not angry.... Not sad... Just fed up with the BS and trying to be the better person

[flowmom]

Ugh DG. Don't poke mama bear! And yes, the rollercoaster gets a bit much. (((hugs)))

[Mila]

DG - I's OK to speak up for what you feel strongly about. You've been DBing and validating and tip-toeing around H for a long time ...sometimes too much is too much. Don't blame yourself. I sure understand how one can reach a braking point.

Hang in there, I hope that you'll have a better week starting tomorrow. You sure can use one...

[DiamondGirl]

So now I have financial issues due to my mom's actions (inactions actually)...

Feeling very beaten and discouraged....

Am I supposed to lose the house? Is that what the message is?

Also, H actually did go to a L who told him not to give me any more money until after a court date.... Somehow I think he got the cliffnotes version of H's actions to date...

I just wish I could trade lives with someone else for a while.... I can't take much more...

[Jasmine]

Can you find an L and get emergency spousal support?

[DiamondGirl]

Thanks for the suggestion, but H is in school FT and only works part time...

It's not that I'm behind on the payment.... More to do with title ownership... A complicated mess is what it is.... And I'm tired of complicated messes...

Thanks though...

[DiamondGirl]

I've got an appointment with a L in 2 weeks... Earliest I could get with him but I'm not complaining cuz it's a freebie from him...

[flowmom]

hugs DG...it sounds like so much to deal with. I hope that the L turns out to be a positive experience like it was for me.

[Mila]

DG, I don't know what to say...I was so hoping for a better week for you.

You have an appointment with your L. Great news, I'm sure that together you'll figure something out.

DG you are a very strong lady, I see it from how you handle every situation that your MLC H trows your way. You'll be OK, you can deal with this issue as well.

I assume that this has to do with your mom being on the title? Don't panic, that may even be a good news, wait until you talk to your L.

(((hugs)))