BD, MIL is telling me that from her p.o.v it's best not to push him on the A cos she reckons it will tip him over. She's resting her hopes on the baby's arrival. But I also sense that she is coming around to accepting the idea that his affair with OW might have some inkling of credibility. These bloody Europeans romantics! Yes, I wish she'd stop calling - cos her support is tipping over into being the opposite. I want to tell her perhaps it's just best to call and talk about the baby, nothing else.

As for BIL - yes, if only I was any of those things today. What I can be is calm and respectful, if not chirpy. Having a bad week. Probably cos I am off work now and have too much time to think (as G senses :/)

As for the therapy - it's not MC, it's parenting counseling. I wish it were MC but we are sooooooooooooo not there.