She did tell me that until one if us files nothing says that he has to do a, b, or c. She suggested I call his bluff and let him file so that he's starting the ball rolling to have a judge set what he's gotta do. Other than that, she said once a petition if filed by whoever, the court date to determine custody, support, control of the home, etc. woukd be set then. After that, we have to wait one year before we can file for the final D. She came recommended by other Ls and judges. Maybe I just used up my time and didn't ask what I should????
I an beginning to believe there's no hope. I've basically tried the LRT for almost a month and he's still saying "we" will never be again.