She wants to make sure that I am officially "served". She stresses that by "receiving" the papers from her, I am not "agreeing" to anything.

I told her that I wanted to sit down and talk to her first before receiving the papers. She said no,receive the papers first and then we'll have something to talk about.

I'm not sure if she has copies of the papers or if she just gives them to a processor. She originally wanted me to meet her at a bank and get them notarized.