He must be. Otherwise why would he be afraid of me questioning him.
MIL says don't ask because then he will be forced to chose.
My mother thinks I should just write him an email and ask once and for all what his plans are with OW so that we establish a degree of honesty and trust from which we can work together, at least as coparents if nothing else, down the track.
and then there's always that hope that he might wake up when he meets the baby.
But i am believing less and less in that right now.
