I want to comfort, but know that I cannot. Tearing me up, to be sure. I am the one asked for the D, and I feel bad for W? I must be truly messed up.
Ha! Been here, too! You're not messed up (and neither am I, I don't think). You're a compassionate human being who loves your spouse and hates to see her suffering, no matter the cause of the suffering.
I'm so sorry, any chance. This really has been a tough day for you.
