Wow, any chance, I don't know what to think of this. Does she want you to offer her comfort? If so, do you think it would be right to give it? A wise person once told me that you don't want someone to feel strong enough to D you. Would comforting her do this?

If she has asked for D, have you made it clear once again that you don't want one?

This is a tough one. I'm sure her being upset is terribly painful for you, but as much as you want to, you can't fix this. She has to work through it all. I'll be thinking of you.