Well, she gets an escape from the reality of our life. Our sick dog that's cost us close to $1000, the fact that she hasn't (her own choice) left the metro area of our city since our anniversary vacation last May, money worries, she gets to tell all of her old stories for the first time again, she gets that chemical buzz that makes her feel a little better about herself, she gets to pretend that she's someone else and doesn't have to worry about how she looks because she can hide behind a camera/webcam lens. Maybe I'm just going about trying to show her that she has a man, and not just a man, one that does love her and will fight for her, always have her back and knows her better than pretty much anyone else in all the wrong ways. I did indeed reach out to his wife on facebook. She was crushed because, and this was LAST weekend, when she called him out on it, he informed her that my wife was his soulmate. We talked a bit, but she seemed to have more or less given up, as this was just the most recent in many, many incidents with women he had become infatuated with and screwed around with online. She bitched about how lazy and how selfish he was, how he was a terrible father addicted to the internet and world of warcraft, and how she didn't really know what to do.
