It seems odd to me that the attny you saw didn't take any time to go over the options, laws, policies and procedures of your state. I interviewed several attnys before I retained counsel and while they all did ask for a run down of the situation they also explained all my legal options.
I don't know what state you are in but do not verbally agree to ANYTHING your H says. In some states a verbal agreement can be binding.
If you do not have an income and your H has supported you, you may be entitled to short or long term spousal support. I am shocked your attny did not spell out anything to you.
Your H is behaving in a very abusive manner. You might consider getting a second opinion from a different attny.
