What? You might bring up the OW again? Why would he be scared of that? Sounds so out-of-his-mind-ish. It sounds like crazy talk, really.

Is he still with her or not? More questions!!

I think one thing is clear, though-- he feels guilty! Otherwise he wouldn't care if you brought up the OW. Guilt, guilt, guilt.

In response to your question, yes, that you're moving on. Not totally that you're done. . . unless you think that would help. (Sometimes it helps, they say. . . )

Sorry about the MIL phone call. If you're like me, you're in an analyzing cycle, trying to figure out what that all means. . . it will pass.

me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.