She hasn't budged...yet. What is it that she gets from the guy online that she doesn't get from you? Start asserting yourself.
She wants a man, so give her one. Show her that the one she has in front of her is better than the fantasy one online. Have you thought of telling the OM's W?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.