You won't see any response. You have to do what you have to do anyway, hence the "180" as described on this board. I gave the advice of getting her in front of other marrieds in a church setting or in front of a marriage councelor. If she is comfortable airing what she's doing in front of them and explaining it, then you are mostly done.
People here have come back from much further. The bottom line is she has to want it, and she has to have and show remorse for her actions. Her actions over time will strip away at the confidence you do have. It is possible to maintain confidence in this tough situatoin, but you have to carve out a life completely free of her.
