flowmom, Help me out, here. After reading your post, the article itself, and some of the subsequent posts, I think I'm not quite getting it. Is the "Fantasy Relationship" the fantasy that one's spouse thinks (or hopes or expects) that you - or your relationship - should be, or is it referring to the potential trap of an EA fantasy relationship?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
