Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
And so hard for us to do as men. We are naturally "fixers," and problem-solvers.

It IS HARD, and it's the one of the most difficult things to do. F, this is grueling experience talking. The words are easy to say... and even though your mind knows it... it is a mission to get your heart to comply.

And this issue is not only limited to men. Women have the save problem.

The fastest way I've found to get there is to throw yourself into your work, sports, gym and social activities. The downtime when you're alone and your mind is left to wonder is a killer.

This quote from the movie The Shawshank Redemption sums it all up very nicely:
You can get busy LIVING or you can get busy dying


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