New and Needing Advice (Long)

[MrBond]

Nothing is going to get done until this thing with the OM is over. She's going to say that she's "tried", but let's face it...she can't be "trying" with you while going after another guy.

Take care of that first before doing anything else. She wants a "man" then you have to be THE man. Not in a d@ck kind of way, but be strong and assertive.

Sounds like that's what she was looking for in you.