Ok Bill, it sounds to me like you should tell her what you have just told us here. Honesty will go a long way here I think. You don't have to be mean about at all. Just tell her like it is ya know? "wife, I dont like the fact that you come and go as you please. We are getting divorced so I would like to live like we are."

YOU are the king of that castle now and let her stand by and watch as YOU run YOUR castle. Does'nt she have some other guy to tend too?


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final