flowmom, I totally agree with you on us needing to GAL.

I have a very fun weekend planned with some family and friends. I've been focusing more on school and NC has helped with the no drama. Even though I'm still down about my sitch, I know I'll be ok.

I have told my H so many times that I don't feel D is the answer, but he appears to be moving forward with it, which I'm no longer afraid of. I know that even if we get D, it's not the end and that there is still a possibilty of R with him.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10