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I've received nasty, explosive e-mails back about wanting "war", and so if it gets ugly, I'll have that in writing, and I'm going to ask for attorney fees as part of the settlement...to show it was him being vindictive and not because he wasn't getting a fair deal.


Wow, not smart of him to put that in writing. One of the things the courts look for regarding custody is which partner is more amenable to working together.

I have an e-mail where my W told me I wasn't welcome at my daughter's parent teacher conference. Won't look good for her.

As I review all the e-mails I sent her, they are all civil, positive, and show cooperation regarding the kids. I don't know what she can point to to say I'm impossible to work with.