Future, at this point it is not about DB'ing really. Maybe we should all try a bit more honesty sometimes.? I know that when we are deep in the LRT and we think we might have a chance we get kinda stuck in this thinking that being dark and defending boundaries is the way to go. But as the sitch stretches on LRT is no longer doing a bit of good. Maybe approach it like this,


"Wife, I know I have been cold but I wanted my time to get over you. Can we deal with the custody issue like the great parents that we are so that the kids do not get hurt? I don't want my children to resent their mother for taking their Father away from them."


Maybe others can help edit this to suit you better. You are a good guy future, you will do alright!


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final