elfie-I am still trying to figure out all this MLC stuff too but it does sound to me like your H's journey was interrupted and he had come out for a little while and went back in...so sorry that happened!

My H had a brief affair in 2001 and moved out but it really ended before he moved out and he was only gone for a few weeks. I wish I knew then what I know now and would have taken things a little slower! I was just happy to have him home!

Sounds like you are doing well despite everything!!!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing