For the most part the EA between my W and OM has dissolved. if you access the other thread I linked to in a previous post in this thread you can read up on that.
Positives today: Me and wife had a couple good non-R conversations. W went to bed before I left for work I said "I have to leave for work, you need anything before I leave?" She said she wanted a bottle of water (she is not feeling well) and so I gladly got it for her. I told her "I hope you feel better" and she said "OK" and then I left for work. Not too much but no negatives other than her beijg distant but that has become a norm during this sitch.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10