I will say this, those changes you made SHOULD be for you and not your husband. It just so happens that he ALSO likes thsoe changes, however, just because the changes aren't bringing him back...right now, if ever...doesn't mean you should give them up.
If you just made those changes to get him back, then they are a trick, and you will eventually fall back into old patterns. IF those changes were for you, then they will stick.
By the way...
Screw HIM...you should be your Hope Spring. : )
You CAN do this, for as long as YOU want too.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
