Faith without works... (my new thread)

[james217]

Well I have an update

Me and WAW had 2 more dates. Yesterday on Sunday we went out to eat and then to a nice hotel. She wanted to ML but I was hesitant (due to the infidelity and herpes).

She was laughing, funny, flirting, and very very affectionate. We watched tv and just talked and how fun. Her kissing was different. So were her hugs. They were passionate. She apologized for everything she had done again. I apologized too. Then she told me
She had given full custody of SD8 to paternal grandmother. She saw a change in me immediately. I almost walked out of the hotel. She told me to come back.

She began crying and telling me how much of a bad mother she was. How SD8 would have a better life over 100 miles away. She also stated that’s why she left. She wants to move down there after she gets herself together. Me and SD8 paternal grandmother DO NOT GET ALONG AT ALL. She blames me for SD8 ending up in foster care.

SD8 had touched our two sons inappropriately was really misbehaving and when me and WAW got sick and lost our jobs? No family would take her in. So we took her to cps and WAW signed over temporary custody. Now she’s given away the rights and SD8 grandmother doesn’t want her to be with me. *sighs*

So I told her how I felt and how we could possibly get it reversed. She still says she’s a bad mother and SD8 needs to be with paternal grandmother. I ask her if she’s going to IC yet and she says no. I shake my head. We watch tv and cuddle til we fall asleep.

I wake up and go to court for financial custody situation with S10. It went pretty well. WAW went with me so my mother did not have to go. We went out to eat after that. We talked some more about the pros and cons of her moving to a small town (she asked) and we didn’t even argue about it. I told her about medical reasons, financial, having no family down there other than SD8 grandmother, limited work. No bus line to get around. She listened and said I will think about that when I get back to my place.

Then we go on the bus and went to the train station where she has to catch another bus to get home. We hug and kiss passionately and for a long time. My father meets me at train station and I get back to the house.

She calls and texts but I don’t answer. I pretend to not get them and text her stating oh you can’t call? She calls and we talk for a few mins and then she gets ready to take a nap because we have pretty much been up talking and sharing a few intimate moments and laughing and discussing issues for 20 out of 24 hours.

I’m still job hunting. I’m waiting to see cornea specialist this Friday. I passed drug test for job last Monday. Still waiting to hear back. Looking at going back to college this summer. Just taking care of business. About to take a walk now.