Loosing drive for marriage!! What now?

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Both your sitches seem so similar to mine. It is the most difficult thing in the world to endure. I am hopeful, but I am also more relistic that it may or may not work out, but I have to focus on me and in my case the kids too.

I have chosen to stay and not leave for better or worse. I am figuring is the R is going to end then it will with me staying or leaving. I am an advocate for staying myself, but this is a decision everyone has to make on their own. I also do not want to be away from kids if I divorce. I want to have much of a R with them as possible.

Do not stop following what works here!

We will all be okay! What does not kill you, will only make you stronger!!!