Game Point

[tryingtilDorR]

Hoping - I think the power/control thing is huge in this situation. My wife has suffered from some compusive disorders like extreme exercise and diet, and I think that was a form of control to deal with general unhappiness. I think all of the drama in our Ms and with OM are also part of this as well.

Another interesting development - this morning I left the house on my way out of town until tommorrow night. W called and left me a msg saying that she forgot I was leaving town and wanted to wish me a safe trip. This may not seem like much, but it is something since W would never do this in the past six months. I was out-of-sight-out-of-mind for the most part for her I think.