Honestly, I don't know what I want to read into it. No, she didn't say she would stop immediately and try and work on things. Pretty much all she said was that she needed some time to figure things out. And after telling her that I wasn't ok with her doing it or the situation, as in, if she was going to continue this, she needed to go, she just turned defensive, saying she didn't know what to tell me and she wasn't leaving because it was her house too.
"she said was that she needed some time to figure things out",
These are classic lines from a cakeeather stringing somebody along. It all makes perfect sense to her. Maybe you should record it and play it back to her later.
Hell, maybe you should do some of the same things, take your recording and play it back to her to remind her...
