Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Hey K..thankyou and ditto!!!

Hi Bobbi, how are you? I must catch up with everyones sitchs.

I have had trouble because I wanted a natural fabric, cotton or preferably silk and 90% of wedding dresses in the UK are... manmade! Polyester, satin, taffeta, tulle etc. And so expensive too! Unless you go really expensive for silk dresses.. but I have found a local seamstress here who only works with silk who is going to copy a picture of a beautiful french strapless designer dress I saw.. I will post a pic in the alt universe when its finally made! I did a sketch today of what I wanted and she is sending for silk swatches so I can choose. Excited now!

Things have settled down, we've even argued a bit recently from tiredness but its all fine and I no longer get upset or worried if we have a cross word. My Mum says I owe Helen a debt of gratitude because if she hadnt been so awful and high maintenance he may not have been so ready to properly commit and been so grateful to get back with me. He really saw the grass wasnt greener (although it was never really about that, it was really about his depression). He said again at the weekend that HE is the lucky one (as your H is K !)

I had nearly all my fertility tests and all looks 'textbook' and healthy, just one x-ray to go. Still not pg, but I managed to fast track us through the IVF NHS queues and we could start IUI by May/June, if we need it!

Thanks to all my friends here who helped me when I needed it most. I've said it before, but I feel I can never thank you all enough really. This community is an extrodinary thing.

xxx