I think the issue of S17 paying to keep a roof over the head of his second family was the deal breaker in the end. He thought long and hard about this before Christmas before XH bought this house when he was considering come home then BUT the time was not right for him to admit these truths to himself. Now he has done that.
The job............ Well I think it might just be out of the frying pan into the fire BUT I am at least being allowed to do the job I am being paid for. The rest is mainly politics and the recession.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
