Ah, dealing with both the shock but mostly sadness. I want to ask her how she can do this to DD, splitting her up like this? DD still says things like 'daddy when we go camping next time and mommy's living with us...' etc.
She's the lovliest little thing and I get all choked up to think she won't be with STBXW and me together at the same time. I'm just so sad for my DD. I feel like I failed to give her what she needs and deserves.
I even sent STBXW an email this morning about the b.day plans yet she didn't even hint at anything like this.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again