Yeah, I mean, she's made it on her own a lot before we were together. She moved out of her parents house at 18 and never looked back, so it's not like she's totally helpless. I do feel partially responsible for how she is now though. I do know that she has depended on me too much. And I've offered to do too much for her at times. Not in a controlling way, but in a see, I'll do it all for you way. I think it was my way of trying to make up for letting her down on the major things. But, I've thought about maybe trying to show her a little about what us splitting up would mean. I even got in touch with our realtor about getting our house on the market, and when I asked her if she had the payoff info for our agent, she told me to wait on that. But, maybe you're right. I don't plan on giving in just for the sake of it. I told her that I wasn't going to fight with her about this, the wreck and what not, and she stopped texting me. I was planning on making some stops on my way home from work, just to not be there.
