Good people (and I am a good person, please believe me ) can fall in the trap of the phantasy when they feel discouraged.
Thanks for saying that Kalni. Perhaps I'm being too harsh. But I'm guessing that your marriage wouldn't stand a chance unless you had made the choice to abandon the fantasy.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
) can fall in the trap of the phantasy when they feel discouraged.
