how do i keep my hope alive?

[trytryagain]

thanks, wholeagain. here's the deal on our finances. we have no joint debt. we own no property. the car is in his name. his student loan debt is in his name. he is taking on the car, his student loans, his rent, insurance for the car, payments on the motorcycle. i pay my own rent (with support from him), and my bills/debts outside of that are a visa card and a line of credit which my H has agreed to pay X amount for each month (calculated from how much debt we incurred using the card and the line of credit since we've been married).

i will definitely not sign anything without consulting a L first. but my H was frustrated that i would ask for an extension on his support of my rent money (which is currently through the end of july, but i'd like to go through the end of november) when he is dealing with so many other bills and just quit his job last week.

i wanted to respond to him and say, if you were THAT worried about all this sh*t, you probably shouldn't have left your JOB, jackas*!!!!! in fact, i still kind of want to say that to him. but i know it won't accomplish anything. it's just frustrating. now he's whining to me about how he can't afford all this, when it was his decision to walk away and cause all this mess in the first place!