Well, that has been what I have been trying to accomplish over the last few days, and I do know that it takes longer than a few days to see change. But, one of the things we talked about was how I was really a poor husband. How I was lazy in terms of handling the "man" things in a marriage, or just not following through on something. So, I told her that this was a real change, not something temporary that I thought I should do to try and win her back and it's how things are going to be from now on. And that sometimes it really takes a nightmare like this to happen to make you wake up and realize how much you need to grow up. So, I've taken on a much larger role in getting things done. Because I know that she wants and deserves a man as her husband, not someone still slacking off like they're 20 and just floating through everything.
