Originally Posted By: DaddyLongShanks
If it was me at this stage, I may laugh off some of her current antics. See if you can get her to go out to a date with you.

If your wife was sending naked pictures of herself to other men and telling you she wants to meet up with them, you would laugh it off and ask her out on a date?

That is terrible advice.

If you allow your wife to openly conduct an affair in your face and you complacently sit back and allow it to happen, you set a precedence in your marriage that you are OK with sharing her with other men. (You would be OK sharing your wife with other men?). Even if you were to rekindle your relationship, she would always remember you had no problem with that. What happens when the next guy comes along? Do you think she would view you as a strong, self-respecting man to journey through life with or as some guy who waits while she fulfills her fantasys of multiple sex partners?


Originally Posted By: DaddyLongShanks
What can we do?

I guess you need to do what makes you happy.