I understand what you're saying. I think one of the problems is that she more or less guards her laptop and phone like they're her children, so it's not like there's easy access. Is my best option, at this point to just show her that I'm serious about moving on? Setting up a new bank account, things like that? There is one thing that she said last night that for some reason just hit me. She said that it wasn't like she saw herself even dating this guy, let alone marrying him, but the fact that she's gotten to a point where she actually wants to meet someone in person from online means that it's not going to work between us anymore.