I'm supposed to be working, but I got on this website instead! Bad me!
How open should you be with BIL? I think that you should open enough so that he could relate a message to your WAH that you want. Know what I mean?
I don't think you should ask him what he thinks your chances are or anything like that. But you could throw out the idea that there's a chance WAH'll change his mind in the next year or so, and see how he responds. (This is only if he brings up talking about it!) Then again, if you don't want that to get back to the WAH, don't say it!
After your BIL spends time with WAH (I forget if you're in the same city right now or not) you could ask how WAH is doing. But then you might not like what you hear. It's best if you don't ask, but it will be really tempting! I just did and got a lot of info. . . not sure that I like it, either.
Well, that's all I can think of. My in-laws are coming into town on Wednesday, too! So we both might have a bit of stirring up. . .
TTYL, back to work!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
