Ok, so lots to respond to. When I said she needed to think about her feelings, I was referring to her telling me last night that she had feelings for the OM. Our internet is just bundled with our cable bill, which is an autopay from our bank account, so who pays for what, really? Plus, for a while when she was holed up in the other bedroom, she was having computer problems, so she just switched to her IM on her iphone and there's no stopping that. I have my phone through work and she shares a family plan with her mom and sister. I have no real interest in keylogging. I know what is going on, it's not like she's hiding it from me or denying it. I don't feel the need to snoop anymore. Just start moving in the right direction and working on things. I guess I kinda knew that there wasn't any real meaning to her still wanting to sleep in the same bed, other than fulfilling her needs of not wanting to sleep alone.
