@Kalni>>Actually, I have somewhat of a desire to know more, but it's out-weighed by other considerations, by far.
So, H is all of a sudden showing up everywhere. Yesterday at a B-Day party @ Chuck-E-Cheese's (started @ 9a.m. ), I turn around, & there he is again, just stopping by on his way back from surfing in Mexico. Later that day, calling to say he was driving right by the house on his way to our friends house for tacos, what are we up to the rest of the day. Can he come by to pick up S7. Calling again, he's on his way home from friend's home.
Thanks for the offer, we already have plans all day. I tried to sit at the other end of the baseball field Saturday, but he has another chair set up right beside him. I feel nothing, although I do occassionally almost put my hand over on his arm. Maybe just from habit.
Anyway, nothing's really changed. It took me a while to get to this place & I'm not going back. If he wants to changed anything, it's going to be him doing the work. I think he's starting to get that it's not his decision any longer.
I just got a call from a friend of mine, his wife "...just decided she didn't want to be married anymore." I don't know why this stuff shocks me, but it does. He says she was telling him she was happier than she's ever been in their 21yrs together, just 3 weeks before that. I asked if there was OP, "oh no, I don't think there's anyone else, why do you ask?"
I remember first coming on here & someone asking that question. I had the same response.
), I turn around, & there he is again, just stopping by on his way back from surfing in Mexico.
