Testing: Hmmm, this is hard. Just have to think of him as a kid. I know how I’d handle it with the kids. I guess what’s hard is that with him, he can just walk out. They can’t, they’re not 18 yet. Adds a bit of fear in the mix that I’m not good at handling. I’ve never lost a battle before, I am not ready to lose now… If he comes home drunk again If he stays out all night without calling If he blows off kid’s events If he doesn’t respond to kid’s texts If he treats me with disrespect If he tells friends/family more “stories” about me
